12 Steps to Success: The Podcast
I started 12 Steps to Success because there is only so much I can learn by examining my own life. Writing gives me somewhere to explore what I think about success, purpose, identity and change, but some of the most interesting ideas emerge when I hear how somebody else has experienced the same questions completely differently.
The people I speak with have taken very different routes through their lives and careers, and I’m interested in what those experiences have taught them rather than simply what they have achieved. We talk about the decisions that changed things, the assumptions they’ve had to reconsider, what success means to them now and, occasionally, what they got completely wrong along the way.
I’m also not particularly interested in turning somebody’s life into a neat success story after the fact. Very few of us experience our lives with the benefit of knowing how everything turns out, and the choices that look obvious in retrospect rarely felt that way while we were making them. I’d much rather understand the uncertainty, mistakes and changes of mind that happened in between.
The conversations start in different places, but they’re all attempts to understand a little more about how people build lives that make sense to them, and how that understanding changes as they do.
Season 1, Episode 11 · March 24, 2026 · 17:09
Identity, Pressure, and Reinvention: Season 1 Highlights (with Eric Mackay)
This final episode of Season 1 steps back from the individual conversations and looks at what emerged across the season as a whole.
From the archive
Every conversation starts somewhere different. Explore previous episodes on success, purpose, identity, leadership, recovery, work and the experiences that change how we see ourselves.
Season 1

Season 1, Episode 10 · March 17, 2026 · 52:23
Resilience, Reinvention, and the Refusal to Stay Down (ft. Moira Carmenate)

Season 1, Episode 9 · March 10, 2026 · 51:22
Legacy, Joy, and the Work of Not Fighting Alone (ft. Dr. Chelsey Green)

Season 1, Episode 8 · March 3, 2026 · 46:41
Money, Identity, and the Cost of Avoidance (ft. Spenser Liszt)

Season 1, Episode 7 · February 24, 2026 · 52:11
Leaders Worth Believing In: Agency, Accountability, and the Mindset Economy (ft. Jean Gomes)

Season 1, Episode 6 · February 17, 2026 · 47:32
When the Pack Disappears: Community and Building Something That Lasts (ft. Lauren Blitzer-Wright)

Season 1, Episode 5 · February 10, 2026 · 51:34
When Your Belief System Breaks: Identity, Fear, and the Way Back to Love (ft. Brian Recker)

Season 1, Episode 4 · February 3, 2026 · 44:54
When Things Fall Apart and You Have to Rebuild (ft. Nyeesha D. Williams)

Season 1, Episode 3 · January 27, 2026 · 47:48
When Momentum Stops Feeling Like Progress (ft. Chris Brereton)

Season 1, Episode 2 · January 20, 2026 · 53:41
You Can’t Rush Clarity (ft. Mo Hiromoto)

Season 1, Episode 1 · January 13, 2026 · 49:21
When Burnout Arrives Quietly (ft. Marni Wandner)

Season 1 Trailer · January 6, 2026 · 7:21
Trailer: The Messy Middle — Purpose, Identity & Redefining Success (with Eric Mackay)
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